Last Wednesday, as usual, I was out for an early morning run. On my way back to my car, I passed by a homeless person. It was evident that he had spent the night nearby, as he was busy preparing for the day ahead, applying deodorant spray to his upper body.

Observing this scene, I couldn’t help but notice the disparity between his circumstances and the small act of self-care he engaged in. Despite his lack of access to basic amenities like regular bathing, his decision to apply deodorant spoke volumes about his resilience and sense of dignity. To an outsider like myself, his situation might have seemed hopeless. However, he still cared and retained some hope.

This encounter prompted me to reflect on a question that has been weighing on my mind: ‘Are we only worthy when we achieve?’ While I know the answer is a resounding ‘No, we are inherently worthy,’ the question has been weighing on my mind because societal norms often seem to suggest otherwise. The praise and recognition typically reserved for achievements can overshadow the value of simply persevering through life’s challenges.

In our culture of accolades and milestones, it’s easy to overlook the significance of everyday resilience and determination. The neverending pursuit of success can overshadow the quiet strength found in enduring adversity and continuing to strive, even in the absence of immediate results.

Ultimately, this encounter served as a reminder that worthiness is not dependent upon achievements, but rather inherent in our humanity – a lesson I want to remember as I navigate the complexities of daily life.

Do you ever believe that worth, happiness, success, or whatever else you strive for only comes after reaching a specific milestone?

What will it take to make you see that it is in the daily grindstone of life that you have to find that which you long for?

Side note: Remember to also compliment consistency when you notice it in your friends’ efforts.