My immediate family and I enjoyed the coastal sun and waves for the past two weeks. Leaving a piece of my heart behind in the small town, the sadness of returning to city life sparked the discussion again between my husband and me about whether we should consider moving to a smaller coastal town. Years ago, we had our house on the market, serious about moving, but COVID happened, and those plans were cancelled.

During our discussion, my eldest son mentioned his friend’s family, who moved to a coastal town. His friend says they hardly ever visit the beach. I can see how that can be the case—one tends to appreciate things less when easily accessible or considered a given.

Also, my husband and I have built a life we love in the city. I’ve found purpose in my writing work, which is easily distributable with available resources, and I am surrounded by a supportive community and friends. Commuting to the office occasionally to engage with my software engineering colleagues is possible from where I stay now. It would be silly to move now, even if I want to fetch that piece of my heart.

I preach being brave, embracing chance, and living outside your comfort zone—growth doesn’t happen while being comfortable. Making no changes means your 2024 is likely to resemble your 2023. However, some things need to be rock solid, stable, and comfortable. The trick is not viewing those things as given but appreciating them and enjoying the benefits.

Build a life you love with the people you love—then be brave to embrace change.

What changes are you considering in 2024? How can you enjoy the life you’ve already built more?