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      <title>Asking for a “Quack! Quack!”</title>
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      <description>&lt;p&gt;Now and then, I hit a wall. It feels like I’ve tried everything, thought through every angle, and still nothing works. The problem before me becomes heavy and immovable — and I feel stuck.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I’ve learned that the way out isn’t always to push harder. Sometimes, it’s to speak. Out loud.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;A colleague many years ago showed me this in the quirkiest way: he kept a tiny rubber duck glued to the top of his computer screen. Whenever he got stuck on a problem and couldn’t find a colleague to listen, he’d explain it to the duck — a strange thing to witness! More often than not, he&amp;rsquo;d already uncovered the answer by the time he’d finished talking it through.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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