https://martmarib.com/categories/trusttheprocess.html Recent content in TrustTheProcess on Mart-Mari Breedt Hugo en-US Tue, 21 Apr 2026 10:00:00 +0000 https://martmarib.com/blog/as-long-as-i-can-plan-it.html Tue, 21 Apr 2026 10:00:00 +0000 https://martmarib.com/blog/as-long-as-i-can-plan-it.html <p>I’m in the peak of marathon training at the moment, and it’s hard. This past weekend I hurt my foot — nothing major, I hope. And that’s been frustrating. Not just because of the interruption, but because of how quickly my mind goes to: <em>“You messed this up.”</em></p> <p>As if one small thing undoes weeks of consistency.</p> <p>It made me realise how easily I slip into thinking: <em>“I’m bad at this.”</em></p> https://martmarib.com/blog/what-is-real.html Tue, 24 Mar 2026 10:00:00 +0000 https://martmarib.com/blog/what-is-real.html <p>For someone who likes plans, certainty, and clear direction, the past few weeks have felt particularly uncomfortable.</p> <p>My daughter hasn’t been well, and we still don’t have clear answers. Maybe it’s nothing. Actually, it’s highly unlikely that it’s nothing; we simply don’t know how serious it is yet — and that uncertainty has a way of sitting heavily in the background of everything else.</p> <p>I’ve realised how much I rely on things being measurable, definable, and predictable. I like knowing what I’m dealing with and what comes next. Not knowing feels like standing still without a map.</p>