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What Is Real?

For someone who likes plans, certainty, and clear direction, the past few weeks have felt particularly uncomfortable. My daughter hasn’t been well, and we still don’t have clear answers. Maybe it’s nothing. Actually, it’s highly unlikely that it’s nothing; we simply don’t know how serious it is yet — and that uncertainty has a way of sitting heavily in the background of everything else. I’ve realised how much I rely on things being measurable, definable, and predictable. I like knowing what I’m dealing with and what comes next. Not knowing feels like standing still without a map. ...

March 24, 2026 · 3 min · 614 words · martmarib